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      Jimoh Eyitayo
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      Conflict is a natural and inevitable part of any relationship. Whether it is with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague, disagreements are bound to arise from time to time. However, how we handle these conflicts can make all the difference in maintaining a healthy and thriving relationship.
      To deal with conflict healthily, it is important to first understand why conflicts occur in the first place. Conflicts often arise from differences in opinions, values, or behaviors. It can also stem from unmet needs, boundaries being crossed, or unresolved issues from the past. Whatever the reason may be, it is crucial to address conflicts head-on and not let them linger, as unresolved conflicts can lead to resentment, distance, and further damage to the relationship.
      One key aspect of dealing with conflict healthily is effective communication. It is essential to express your thoughts, feelings and needs clearly and respectfully. Avoid blaming or criticizing the other person, and instead focus on using “I” statements to convey your perspective. For example, instead of saying, “You always ignore me,” try saying, “I feel hurt when I don’t feel heard.” This shift in language can make a world of difference in how the other person receives your message.
      Active listening is another crucial component of healthy conflict resolution. It is important to listen to the other person’s perspective with an open mind and without interrupting. Reflect on what you heard to show that you are truly listening and understand their point of view. This can help create a sense of validation and empathy, which can go a long way in resolving conflicts peacefully.
      It is also important to approach conflicts with a mindset of collaboration rather than competition. Instead of trying to “win” the argument, focus on finding a solution that works for both parties. This may involve compromising, finding common ground, or seeking out a third-party mediator to help facilitate the discussion. By working together towards a resolution, you can strengthen the bond in the relationship and build trust and understanding.
      Another helpful strategy in dealing with conflict healthily is to take a time-out when emotions are running high. It is okay to step away from the situation to cool down and collect your thoughts before reengaging in the discussion. This can prevent escalating tensions and allow for a more productive and rational conversation.
      Lastly, it is important to practice self-care and self-awareness during conflicts. Take care of your emotional well-being by engaging in activities that help you relax and recharge. Reflect on your triggers and patterns of behavior that may contribute to conflicts, and work on addressing them to prevent future disagreements.
      In conclusion, conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but it is how we handle these conflicts that can make all the difference. By communicating effectively, actively listening, collaborating, taking time-outs, and practicing self-care and self-awareness, we can navigate conflicts healthily and constructively. By approaching conflicts with a sense of respect, empathy, and understanding, we can build stronger and more resilient relationships that can weather any storm.

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      Thank God I saw this, keep trying to put amends on broken relationship, this will definitely go a long way for one that is about to.

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