It’s a no no no no!!!!
I don’t expect my partner to have an opposite sex as bestie aside me. Our intimacy is very key and having an opposite sex as bestie means infringing on our intimacy and that i would not allow.
I should be able to tell my partner what i cant tell anyone else because he’s my bestie, so for him to be a good bestie to that person he has to also be doing what he’s doig to me to that person and that is totally not acceptable.
Even if that bestie was there before me, it shouldn’t remain like that, there has to be a shift, i have to come first.
And this is totally not borne out of jealousy. It’s just that this thing called “emotion” hmmm🤐
I know you’d thinks its insecurity😆 but mehn it’s totally not either.